If you look at other species on the planet, they are shameless. They walk around naked, eliminating when they need to and right where they are. They clean themselves when the urge happens to strike them. They copulate when and where they are. They don’t care about who is nearby or watching during these acts. They are 100% shameless and fearless. They trust their instincts, know they’ll have food and water, and can find or build a shelter if needed.
So how is it that shame is something that humans exhibit or feel? It’s simple. Someone taught us to be shameful. It was taught to us by our peers, who learned it from their peers and so on since the controlists and religionists started the idea. It was heaped on us long ago, and we’ve behaved with shame, modesty, and a perverted sense of decency ever since. Shame is something that our parents install in us. It’s been installed generation after generation for thousands of years, and shame is accepted as ‘NORMAL’. It’s NOT normal. Shame is the reason we are afraid of criticism. Criticism and ridicule are the vehicles used to install shame. Shame is the furthest thing from normal that a human can experience.
Shame is not an emotion. Shame is a mental construct that we are inoculated with as infants and toddlers before our faculty of reason has had any opportunity to develop. The emotion we feel is guilt for not following the rules imposed on us, and they use shaming to guilt us into behaving the way they want us to. Shaming someone is immoral because the person doing the shaming is trying to force someone else to act in the manner they want. It’s how we get taught WHAT to think, not HOW to think. That’s how we get enslaved.
Picture this: I had difficulty keeping my diapers on as a toddler. My parents experienced severe frustration since my diapers seemed to end up on the floor magically. My mom would try to fasten the cloth diapers as tight as she could without causing me to lose blood circulation in my body, and still, I’d manage to lose them or wriggle out of them. She considered using the safety pins to attach the diapers to my skin permanently. Fortunately for me, she knew I had already figured out how to open the safety pins, so she thought the piercings would be useless.
One day, while my family was visiting a beach, my father was so frustrated with my magical diaper disappearing act that he placed a loud, public spanking on me with the words, “You should be ashamed of yourself and your behaviour! You should never be naked in public. This is unacceptable!” He was so loud that it drew the attention of everyone around us. I felt embarrassed and guilty for not following his rules. That left a profound scar in my subconscious mind because of my underdeveloped conscious mind. I didn’t understand his logic. I didn’t understand his anger. I didn’t understand why he didn’t love me. I didn’t understand what I had done wrong. It was constantly drilled into me. “Taking your clothes off is bad behaviour.”, “Don’t touch your willie! That’s dirty!” my parents told me. I didn’t understand how my willie could be dirty. I wasn’t playing in the sandbox with my willie hanging out.
The people that would make us slaves to their way of thinking and behaving, the controlists and religionists, indoctrinate children younger than eight years old. These people have yet to develop the mental faculty of reason. They high-jack human minds. That, in my opinion, is mental abuse and a criminal act. Religion and forced conduct should not be introduced to a mind until the age of reason has been reached. That way, individuals can use their minds to decide what they want to believe.
As I grew, I started to use the concepts of shame and modesty and behave the way my parents wanted me to so I could win my parent's love. I behaved the way my teachers wanted me to, I behaved the way my clergy wanted me to, and I behaved the way my schoolmates wanted me to act, so my schoolmates would like me so that the clergy would send me to heaven, and my teachers would give me good grades. I was being anyone except who I really was. I tried to be someone my spouses wanted me to be so I could have sex with them. I was trying to change my personality to suit my environment. A human chameleon. Never the same person twice. I feared criticism if I didn’t behave like others wanted me to. I felt such stress and anxiety because someone taught me to be shameful and modest.
I carried that construct of shame for too many years. It made me sick. It made me feel unworthy of love. It made me doubt myself, which in itself is criminal. To this very day, I do not understand how we as humans conclude that our natural, naked, beautiful bodies can be something to be shamed by or ashamed of. The concept is disgusting. Being forced to wear clothing causes chemical imbalances in the body. I was anxious about not being accepted unless I behaved the way others expected me to, which also caused unhealthy chemistry in my body. This chemical imbalance causes illness. The controlists know this, and that’s how they maintain control over humans. If the body isn’t well, the mind can be easily controlled. Look at the advertisements for medications and products. They created these ads to appeal to sick people who want to placate symptoms or mitigate the feeling of not having enough or being enough.
Covid struck a significant gap in our lives by causing people to live in a virtual world, making the social media giants rich. We’ve stopped socializing in person. We’ve become cyborgs attached to our smart devices and computers. We write whatever bullshit comes to our minds on social media without thinking about what we say. Trolls hide behind “User Names.” Trolls are an excellent example of non-thinking humans. Bitching and complaining and never coming up with solutions for the crap that their posting on the internet. SHALLOW non-thinkers.
Suppose we learn to become aware of what we are feeling and, therefore, what we think and take control of our behaviour. In that case, we’ll take away the power of controlists and religionists. Trolls would vanish like magic. We would understand how to control our behaviour and therefore won’t need to be controlled by others. Once we’ve learned to control our own behaviour, shame will be eliminated. We’ll be able to reconnect to Nature and become the shameless, fearless custodians of Mother Earth as Nature intended us to be. We’d be healthier, happier, prosperous, free, naked, and beautiful.
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